Ever wondered why guys are hailed for deflowering girls? Well, this is because it is worth more than billions. Your virginity can never be given a price tag, it is priceless.
I remember a girl's story; she was a virgin and was constantly mocked by her mates. She summoned courage one day and said " what I have, you will never get". She was absolutely right! They can never get it, even money can not get them the lost virtue. This brings us to the topic ' Virginity'. What does it really mean? Virginity is a virtue attributed to people who have never had sexual intercourse both oral and vaginal. These people are called ' VIRGINS'. They are a rare genre of people in today's world.
There are so many things going viral about teenagers these days especially girls!! I read men's comments on teen girls and all they said gave me a sick feeling. There were girls defending their integrity and dignity though. That aside.
I will not deny the fact that most of the things that seem to surround us or actually surrounds us portray one thing, S*X! From music videos and lyrics to movies to social networks and some other things that require sealed lips. Even cartoons that were meant to be innocent now contain romance scenes. Adverts too. Most Celebrities are now making things worse. They portray bad as morals and morals as 'old school'. The pressure from all these differ from hormonal pressures. All these urge us to neglect morals and a great life in God making us rush into it like it is no BIG DEAL.
Back to our topic!
Virginity is a great thing! It is priceless!! Being a virgin tells the world that you are in control of yourself. You must know, losing your virginity is a BIG DEAL!! And it mostly comes with emotional problems which many teenagers can not handle so some think of running away or committing suicide. Let us not forget that sex ouside marriage also has problems relating to the spiritual which is the main aspect of our lives.
Stand for yourself! Be confidence to say 'NO' to sex. It is not the right time and trust me you are not ready to face the problems which in most cases are beared alone. You owe no one your virginity so do not be fooled by " if you truly love me you will do what I ask for". If such a person is persistent about this, RUN!!! There is a high tendency he or she is going to sexually assault you one day.
...and YES this is applicable to teenage boys too.
Do not waste your time sleeping around with girls. There are a lot of issues that come with being a father at this age. Instead work for the future you desire!!
I remember a girl's story; she was a virgin and was constantly mocked by her mates. She summoned courage one day and said " what I have, you will never get". She was absolutely right! They can never get it, even money can not get them the lost virtue. This brings us to the topic ' Virginity'. What does it really mean? Virginity is a virtue attributed to people who have never had sexual intercourse both oral and vaginal. These people are called ' VIRGINS'. They are a rare genre of people in today's world.
There are so many things going viral about teenagers these days especially girls!! I read men's comments on teen girls and all they said gave me a sick feeling. There were girls defending their integrity and dignity though. That aside.
I will not deny the fact that most of the things that seem to surround us or actually surrounds us portray one thing, S*X! From music videos and lyrics to movies to social networks and some other things that require sealed lips. Even cartoons that were meant to be innocent now contain romance scenes. Adverts too. Most Celebrities are now making things worse. They portray bad as morals and morals as 'old school'. The pressure from all these differ from hormonal pressures. All these urge us to neglect morals and a great life in God making us rush into it like it is no BIG DEAL.
Back to our topic!
Virginity is a great thing! It is priceless!! Being a virgin tells the world that you are in control of yourself. You must know, losing your virginity is a BIG DEAL!! And it mostly comes with emotional problems which many teenagers can not handle so some think of running away or committing suicide. Let us not forget that sex ouside marriage also has problems relating to the spiritual which is the main aspect of our lives.
Stand for yourself! Be confidence to say 'NO' to sex. It is not the right time and trust me you are not ready to face the problems which in most cases are beared alone. You owe no one your virginity so do not be fooled by " if you truly love me you will do what I ask for". If such a person is persistent about this, RUN!!! There is a high tendency he or she is going to sexually assault you one day.
...and YES this is applicable to teenage boys too.
Do not waste your time sleeping around with girls. There are a lot of issues that come with being a father at this age. Instead work for the future you desire!!
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